Comments on: Is it right for a girl to ask a guy out? http://www.sleepingcousins.com/is-it-right-for-a-girl-to-ask-a-guy-out/ is it okay? is it right? is it wrong? Sun, 20 Jun 2010 15:26:35 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Megs102 http://www.sleepingcousins.com/is-it-right-for-a-girl-to-ask-a-guy-out/comment-page-1/#comment-26 Megs102 Thu, 11 Mar 2010 03:00:34 +0000 http://www.sleepingcousins.com/?p=51#comment-26 This was a helpful post. I think most guys would be turned off in the long run and sorry that they didn't ask the girl out first. I've wanted to ask this guy out at work, just to the bar or something. There's chemistry between us, but I don't know if he's already seeing someone and popping the question would seem awkward. I'm already shy as it is and a rejection would be extremely embarassing.... If he's man enough, he'll ask. Or it's not meant to be and move on. This was a helpful post. I think most guys would be turned off in the long run and sorry that they didn’t ask the girl out first. I’ve wanted to ask this guy out at work, just to the bar or something. There’s chemistry between us, but I don’t know if he’s already seeing someone and popping the question would seem awkward. I’m already shy as it is and a rejection would be extremely embarassing…. If he’s man enough, he’ll ask. Or it’s not meant to be and move on.

]]> By: KGibson http://www.sleepingcousins.com/is-it-right-for-a-girl-to-ask-a-guy-out/comment-page-1/#comment-11 KGibson Thu, 21 Jan 2010 21:04:21 +0000 http://www.sleepingcousins.com/?p=51#comment-11 I agree with you, and am a female, but only to the point of high school and a little after that. If a guy is seriously offended by a girl asking him out, then he needs to get over it. I mean, not to be rude or dramatic, but most men out of that stage of life (men I have known all my life) are totally fine with it. I'm sure there are exceptions, but any man that's that sensitive to a woman's dominace shouldn't be dating a girl like that. He should be confident enough in his own dominance to be sure of his part in the relationship if he's going to accept the offer. But most of what you say I agree with. I grew up with twenty or so older male cousins, and as a result have a very dominant personality, and it intimidates guy. I wish I COULD find a guy dominant enough to control me. Contrary to what most females say, we DO want to be controlled, but GENTLY, if that makes sense. Anyway, hope my oppinion is revealing to somebody. I agree with you, and am a female, but only to the point of high school and a little after that. If a guy is seriously offended by a girl asking him out, then he needs to get over it.

I mean, not to be rude or dramatic, but most men out of that stage of life (men I have known all my life) are totally fine with it. I’m sure there are exceptions, but any man that’s that sensitive to a woman’s dominace shouldn’t be dating a girl like that. He should be confident enough in his own dominance to be sure of his part in the relationship if he’s going to accept the offer.

But most of what you say I agree with. I grew up with twenty or so older male cousins, and as a result have a very dominant personality, and it intimidates guy. I wish I COULD find a guy dominant enough to control me. Contrary to what most females say, we DO want to be controlled, but GENTLY, if that makes sense.

Anyway, hope my oppinion is revealing to somebody.

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