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Is it okay to kiss your friend?

Posted on 15 November 2009

Is it okay to kiss your friend?

Kissing anyone can be dangerous.  Kissing is addictive and can lead to other things, as well.  Once you have kissed a person, you can’t take it back.  Some things to consider before you decide whether or not to kiss your friend are as follows:

1.  Would you be okay losing this friend? Kissing a friend sometimes ends in loss of said friendship.  Things can get awkward fast, especially if you are trying to keep things a secret.  Make sure you weigh the benefits against the risks.

2.  What is your intention in kissing this friend? If you are just looking for a quick hook up that feels nice, it might not be worth losing that friend.  Are you actually pursuing a relationship?  Remember that even relationships can harm a friendship.

3.  How does this friend feel about you? Kissing is a two-way street.  Forcing it is never a good idea.  But maybe you’re both into each other and your friendship was just a stepping stone to a healthy dating relationship.

Make sure you weigh the consequences before you kiss your friend.  You may be able to go on being friends, but there is a chance that you will end up doing more than you bargained for or that you could lose this friend forever.

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