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Is it okay to call a guy?

Posted on 15 November 2009

Is it okay to call a guy?

Here are a few things to think about before you decide to call a guy:

1.  Guys typically prefer to be initiators.  Guys are hardwired to feel the need to initiate things and don’t like feeling inferior to others.  Manliness is a great characteristic in a guy, and if he’s a real man, he will face his fear of calling you, if that is his issue.

2.  Did he give you his number? Girls are excellent at twisting the words and actions of guys to our favor.  Make sure you aren’t assuming anything about him.  If he gave you his number, he probably won’t mind if you give him a ring.

3.  Does he have your phone number? If has has your number, he has every capability to call you if he wants to.  Guys tend to take their time getting around to things, so be patient.  It’s better not to rush things or assume things.  If he doesn’t have your number, give it to him!  He should get the hint.

4. Are you calling him 9 times for every 1 time he calls you? It’s probably better to have a more balanced phone relationship than that.  Don’t be overbearing!  It’s a huge turnoff to most guys.

Take into consideration his intentions and yours before you decide anything.  It is way more fun to be pursued than to pursue! Is he just a friend? By all means, call that guy!

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